Lately I have been feeling down in the dumps. You know when it is just that people around you who let you down, undermine you and judge you. They are people who point at a girl's character or call her with names or call her self obsessed. I personally would never respect a guy who would call a girl with names if she is modern, loves to play dress up and cant let anyone suffocate her individuality. It is sad and disgusting that how much ever modernism people embrace they are still conservative in their minds. You cant link a girl with some guy if you see them together. They say you never really know someone until you walk a mile in their shoes.
I just hate rigidity and imposition of thoughts. I can say it without any qualms that I was born in a closely knit society. What bothers me the most is that people can’t respect each other’s opinions and get into a tirade of abuse. It gets on your nerves more when your friends have been snooping around. We might not have the same school of thought and approach. I have been trying to ignore and not get bothered. Guess, I just need to stay strong and do what keeps me happy. Chastisement, retaliation, vengeance, lashing out wont help. I have learnt, that only ignorance is a powerful tool which really helps in long run.
Anyway, enough of my rants and getting rid of my cluttered mind. Those who are here for the outfit posts here is my geek chic look with a touch of retro spin with my polka dots top, an essence of modernism and a twist of drama. *wink* I was pretty excited to showcase this outfit post ever since I bought my nerdy spectacles from Forever 21. Here take a look! Thumbs up or thumbs down?
Look Of The Day - Geek Chic *Nerdy Me*
I am wearing
Skirt - Vero Moda
Polka Dot Top - Bandra Market, Mumbai
Black Peep Toes - Nine Vest
Watch - Fossil
MacbookPro Laptop Case
DISCLAIMER
For those who are viewing this page. I ought to tell you this that It is my opinion and my blog. I am a dictator of taste but I don't inflict myself on you, Period.
It is okay to have your own opinion. It is okay to dislike and even criticize. It is okay to think others are jobless and not worth it. It is okay to be jealous of others and mock at them, grimace and continue brooding over it . But you are nobody to inflict yourself and your beliefs on others. You might harbor resentment but the problems springs up when you raise your voice publicly and when your comments will be a slur on others. Because in the process you will be hurting someone and such actions will only demean the person.
I tell you, everyone has their own beliefs and faith in something, even our own opinions and ideas change. But you cant meddle in or snoop into someone's affairs and look down on them when nobody came up to you personally.
I would just say lead your own life in a good way. I had read these beautiful lines somewhere, “Work on self improvement so that you don’t have time for criticizing others.”
It is your choice and it is my choice. What choices I make, it defines me. I have all the love for the people who visit my blog and appreciate my efforts and my interests. I would humbly bow down. XOXO.
you are looking fab as always swthrt and dont bother so much about people like dat..
ReplyDeleteOMG! You look just fabulous! At a glance, I thought this was a photo shoot for some magazine!! The top is so beautiful!
ReplyDeleteWell to start with.. You looking fabulous :)
ReplyDeleteNow abt ur write up, I truly appreciate and agree with your way of putting it.. Ignore what others think of u coz we r not here to impress others.. :)
Definitely thumbs up on the outfit! Love it.
ReplyDeleteYou know it is always difficult for fashion bloggers to explain what they do and why they to people. Especially here in India! People just don't understand. I am not too sure what is up with you but don't worry! :) Everything happens for a reason!
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Well some people have just got the nerves and are just too jobless and hence they venture out to judge and start commenting. Ignore and ignore and ignore. They dont matter to us period. But its good to pour out those things on the blog, atleast I do that. It feels good.
ReplyDeleteand about your outfit, the geek glasses look so good on you! Polka dots are my favorite, but the winner over here is the front button skirt. They look fab, and a perfect fit and length. The color in the form of the pink bag is appealing. Nice one!
When they cant talk 'to' you they'll talk 'about' you . . . smile away these ppl coz they'd die to be what you are anyday . . . if there life wud have been half as interesting they wouldnt be talking about you .. .so throw a pity on then and let go :) :)
ReplyDeleteAnd i dont care how monotonous it sounds coming from me. . but you look drop dead gorgeous here . .. It reminds me the look of kangana in life in a metro :)
Hi megha!!
ReplyDeletethats an awesome geeky yet sexy look!!
love ur polka dots top and the pink mac book cover :D
watever others say,u luk awesome :)..as alwys!!
ReplyDeleteu look amazing. Those glasses look cute on u. Love the nailpolish too :)
ReplyDeleteawesome :)
ReplyDeleteForget what they say. Narrow minded people are an obstacle only to themselves. Carry on and do what you like. All the best from Italy.
ReplyDeleteI love the skirt - It looks so great :)
ReplyDeleteThe top is the start of the look....Geek Chic looks great !!
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U look fab girl !!
ReplyDeleteI can understand what you are going through Megha; I think at some point or other in our lives, all girls have experienced that negativity, be it from members of the same gender, or members of the opposite gender. Just remember that there will always be people around to misunderstand, to judge, to hurt. And if they are going through all that effort to hurt you, that means you must be doing something right for them to want to bring you down. Try to keep the negativity aside, and do what you do best.
ReplyDeleteAlso. love the glasses and the polka dot top!
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U r really photogenic...n look really fab :)
ReplyDeleteu hav a cute smile..and u look fab.. :)
ReplyDeleteyou make for a sexy geek chick!!!..
ReplyDeleteand just ignore those 'toxic' people.....
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You look chic with those nerdy glasses. And about the people, they are living just to judge others. Ignore!
ReplyDeleteYou look absolutely great Megha!
ReplyDeleteSo chic and so classy!
And, about people just IGNORE! I like and agree with that one line you mentioned, you hardly know someone until you walk a mile in their shoes!
Very truly said!
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You look so cute, love it!
ReplyDeleteThat's a fab look deserving a thumbs up! :)
ReplyDeletethumps up girl for the outfit and for the attitude..you cant please everyone..just do your thing. you look great. i love polka dots and high waisted pants and skirts. love the yellow nail polish. take care.
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You pull off the geeky-chic look so well! Nice choice of polka-dots. You're a very good writer as well.
ReplyDeleteThe polka dots and the pink case steal the show.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely geek chic :)
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I love the polka dots and the buttons on that skirt! SO CUTE! xoxo A-
ReplyDeleteSo sorry you have been feeling down. You look lovely though. That's such a pretty top.
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Love that blouse. You are the chicest geek ;)
ReplyDeleteThumbs UP :D for the look its too classy and nerdy :D good one!
ReplyDeleteThumbs Down for people who want to judge others ;) care a damn! who are they to stop you do all that you want its your life live it to the fullest have no regrets :D keep smiling :D
Super adorable pics..you look sweet and sexy in thoose nerdy glasses!!
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Gaah!! So many of us who started around the same time or who I met few months back are having hard time. Internet is scary place. I had to get myself out of Twitter for same reasons. People don't understand why you say what you say and whole loads of bull.
ReplyDeleteYou do what you like girl. Let them say what they like.
And you Do look geek chic ;-)
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Giuseppe
love d polka top and d cute skirt! :)
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like the others, you look fab! love your outfit!
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That is such a cute outfit. Love the top. And reg the rest of it. People are weird like that. Screw them. Your life, your rules.
ReplyDeleteYou look great and you have a lovely smile!!!
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Hi....sexy chic!!!
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Love the outfit you've put together, the polka dot top looks cute!
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You look so pretty :D
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thumbs up all the way megha !
ReplyDeletecute :)
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ReplyDeleteU look great, and ur personality seems very dynamic (from the way you write :)) so i hope u r feeling better, Megha!
ReplyDeleteHave a great day! :)
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You have a great blog. And I really loved every post done. (You heard that right. I took the time to go through each of them). Also, I just can't go without saying that you are beautiful.
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Love the outfit!! Hope your mood is lighter now!!
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Ignore what people around say Megha. concentrate on your beautiful looks :) loved the top
ReplyDeleteHey megha..:)
ReplyDeleteThank you for visting and commenting..:)
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I loved the look..:):)
HOW i wish i could tell u pls courier that top 2me..:P
By the m following u.:)
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ReplyDeleteLovely look.. I adore your top!!!! n pink clutch!
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gooddd one... love the high waisted skirt :).. too cute.. and thumbs up for writing super gal!!
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